X17 gave you a peek inside the big bash Saturday, now Life & Style snagged one of their very goth black and red invites!

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Since the wedding was put together pretty quickly *cough* shotgun *cough*, the "Alice in Wonderland" themed "Save the Date" was sent out via e-mail, with guests being reminded to RSVP with "No time to say hello, goodbye!" a line from the White Rabbit.

The mag also reports that the couple asked that in lieu of gifts, donations be made to the non-profit group, Invisible Children. And no, that's not a clever way of them asking for people to support their unborn (and currently invisible) child!