Seems Lilo's loosening up about her relationship with Sam -- admitting their love that dare not speak its name to a radio station this morning and now, the two are half-way to something during Lindsay's sexy photo shoot yesterday!

Michael Lohan lohanhead.jpgBut here's the real news, y'all. You remember how Lindsay's dad Michael was upset that Linds didn't go to his father's memorial service after his death last month? Well he's offering his daughter one more chance to get back in his good graces -- he's telling her she better show up for the scattering of her grandfather's ashes this weekend -- OR ELSE!

What will Lindsay do?