230elongoria060511_01_X17.jpgAfter topping Maxim's Hot 100 list several years in a row, it's not wonder Eva Longoria has quickly moved on from cheating ex-hubby Tony Parker!

During Lifetime's The Conversation With Amanda de Cadenet on Thursday, the Desperate Housewives star confessed she doesn't carry any "baggage" from her failed three-year marriage to the San Antonio Spurs point guard.

Eva revealed:

    "I am so secure in who I am. I really am! And I'm not conceited. I just think, 'Wow, okay, that's the life you want to live.' It wasn't about who he chose. I mean, I had moments [where I wondered], 'Am I not sexy enough? Am I not pretty enough? Am I not smart enough?' But in so many of those questions, I immediately stopped and said, 'No, don't start doing that.' Because you can get stuck in that cycle and you can carry on to other things."

"Even having the conversation, I really wanted to provide a pillow for him to say and express 'the why.' Because I really wanted to know why. I don't want to judge you. I'm not going to judge you. I'm not going to be mad in this moment. I'll be mad later," the 37-year-old added.

The actress also revealed, "People say, 'What grace!' And it wasn't that. I really wanted to know, and if you genuinely want to get something out of somebody, you have to not judge."

Longoria knows that Parker's infidelity "was definitely not about me" and hearing about it "didn't make me feel better, but it helped me understand."

The ex-couple have been divorced for over a year and the sexy Latina is definitely "having a lot of fun" now that she's a free woman, and has been dating Penelope Cruz's little brother Eduardo on-and-off for the past year.

Eva concluded, "I'm in a transitional state where I have no rules and I have no boundaries, and I don't really want to put those back up."