JLo isn't holding back!

While on Chelsea Lately last night, Jennifer Lopez got pretty blunt -- and we love it!

When asked about her single lady status, the 45-year-old told host Chelsea Handler, "I like being in a relationship. I'm not one to like whore around and stuff like thatthat's not my thing."

We are pretty in awe of Lopez's star power -- but it seems like we're not the only ones. Handler seemed enamored by the always glowing star -- and asked how she always managed to look so good.

"I try take care of myself... I try to live right, try to healthy and happy. I don't drink. I never smoked... I don't like it (alcohol)... I never got accustomed to the taste of alcohol, the mom of twins added. "My mom used to scare us about alcohol and drugs. We grew up in the Bronx and she was just like so afraid that we were gonna fall into bad stuff... She drummed it in our heads."