It's hard to be the Mr. to her Mrs.!

Cris Judd recently opened up about his failed nine month marriage to Jennifer Lopez, and the choreographer explained that dating a global superstar isn't as easy as it sounds!

"You know it's very tough. Your privacy is breached. You're no longer a normal person," he confessed to Us Weekly at the Industry Dance Awards in Hollywood. The former pair met in 2000 after the singer hired him to direct her music video for "Love Don't Cost A Thing" and wed in September 2001.

    "You kind of sign up for that, you know? You kind of have to take it and accept it and embrace it. Once you stop fighting it, it smoothes itself over. If you try to keep that privacy, it drives you nuts and that's why people break," he added about negotiating that level of fame.


So why does he think Jenny from the Block has been so unlucky in finding lasting love?

    "But you know, I can't give you the answer as to why her relationships don't work. I think that it's that it is work. It's whether you want to work on it or not. Everyone has baggage and problems. It's whether you want to deal with those problems. When you sign up to get married, you can't just walk away," he speculated.


He sounds like he still has a great amount of respect for her!