She may have once wanted Drake to murder her v*gina, but these days Amanda Bynes is apparently engaged to a 19-year-old man named Caleb! Well, according to her, anyway...

On Monday night the 28-year-old actress partied at the Monarch Room in New York City until 3am, and she's been in the Big Apple since October 3, just five days after her DUI arrest in Los Angeles last month. She flashed us a peek at what looks like her engagement ring, though she covered her face and accused photographers of "raping" her.

Yesterday a reporter for In Touch bumped into Bynes, and while the starlet wasn't super friendly, she spilled the deets on her new man and what she's up to. "I am very needy for friendship and I hate men," she reportedly said. "I want to f**k them, but I can now say I’m engaged — get away from me. I want to be married and I want to be away from people."

As far as social media, there was a Twitter user who everyone was speculating was Bynes (tweeting goodies like "I need my future husband to love me the way that I love him" and "who's in charge of this event? I'm in the bathroom my privacy is being violated!"), but the account has since been made private and the actress finally tweeted from her verified account and wrote:
    "Don't believe anything the tabloids are saying about me. They dislike me for some odd reason & they continue to insult me everyday. Treat others how you want to be treated. The truth will set you free. I'm transferring to NYU or Columbia from FIDM to study psychology, so you'll see me in New York if you live here but I HATE stalkers!"

We want to believe that the other account is still Amanda's though -- maybe it's simply her sassier online alter ego?