J.Lo has learned a thing or two about romance over the years!

Jennifer Lopez is known for being quick to fall in love, but the singer admits she recently realized she needed to change the way she approached relationships in hopes of finding her happily ever after.

"I feel like, when we're kids, you're sold into this fairy-tale idea of what love is — that Prince Charming is gonna come along and save you, and you're gonna live happily ever after. '[He's] gonna rescue me from the Bronx, and we're gonna go off and live in a castle somewhere and it's gonna be awesome. He's gonna love me forever, and I'm gonna love him forever, and it's gonna be real easy.' And it's so different than that," she told Maria Shriver in an interview for the Today show.

Jenny from the Block explained that her split from husband Marc Anthony caused her to examine her own self-esteem issues, specifically her fear of being alone. "The first person who shows up and gives me a little comfort and we have a little chemistry, boom, we're in!" she confessed.

The 45-year-old's twins Max and Emme play the most influential role in her dating life going forward. "They save me. Their love and loving them and them coming into my life really made me reevaluate what I was doing with my life, and the relationships and the choices I was making in relationships sometimes," she gushed.

We know she will find her Prince!