Whew! Seems like it's a rough time for Ben Affleck -- looking a little worse for wear on Monday, as he took daughter Seraphina to the therapist's office.

Ben missed Mother's Day with the family at church so no doubt, he was in the dog house the day after -- that said, he's probably in the dog house most days which is why Jen filed for divorce!

The puffy-faced Ben enjoyed some organic ice cream with his daughter after their appointment and then got into their chauffeur-driven SUV and took off. Hmmm ... a chauffeur -- that's new!