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Why Won't He Move For Halle?!
Posted on Wed Nov 14, 2007 03:45 PM PDT
Oscar-winner Halle Berry, now about five months pregnant, is reportedly "shocked by the news" that her babydaddy Gabriel Aubry will not leave New York for Los Angeles, where Halle wants to raise their child. "If Gabriel stays in New York, it'll mean long separations," says a source. And apparently the 41-year-old actress "has been begging him to change his mind." Why won't Gabriel come to L.A.? Well, he wants to stay on the colder coast to further his modelling career.
Pssh. Forget the modelling and marry her! You know there's a ton of other guys that would.
Who thinks Halle should move to New York, or just move on from Gabriel?
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omg!!! i love her she look sgreat in that pic!!!
http://www.spymac.com/details/?2300835
She's beautiful, but I feel sorry for her. She's had so many "guy problems" in her life.
Here we go again, the low self-esteem always lets men have the upper hand.
Let her go back to New York, dumb dumb. Who cares!
She has "guy problem" because she has low self-esteem. Men can see that and they take advantage of her low self-esteem.
This guy is clearly an idiot!
why can't she move to new york?
That guy wants her money. He isn't really in love with her. Now they are not married, he knows he can't get her money anyway, what's the point of living with her.
Male models don't make as much money as female models and there is an age limit, you can't be a model forever.
Something they should have discussed before she got pregnant so don't feel bad for her.
Halle needs to stop treating her man like I am all yours and I am so committed. Her man stops trying once he knows she is not going anywhere.
She should behave like "I am Halle Berry and I am super hot, damn it, if you don't treat me right, I am going out with those hot guys out there."
In fact, she is totally capable of enjoying dating different men. She really should stop worrying and just have fun with all the cute guys out there.
"She really should stop worrying and just have fun with all the cute guys out there."
Yup, if she does that. That male model will climb back to her side and treat her better.
He is my favorite star. Good news. It's said he is writing blogs on a celebrity and millionaire dating site named searchingmillionaire.com. Many fans joined the discussiont here.
i don't blame him. I wouldnt want to either.
"why can't she move to new york?"
Maybe she doesn't want to raise her kids in a condo and she wants her kid to have a backyard and more room to do activities.
New York is so condensed and crowded. It's really not ideal for kids unless parents must work in New York 9 to 5, then you have no choice
Halle, that's a sign that he doesn't love you as much as you think. Don't do anything stupid like marrying him or follow him to New York.
I like that he is a man of principles..he does not want to be called Mr Berry..good for him
Just enjoy your child and let that guy go. He probably isn't ready to settle down. How old is he? 31? He still wants to go out.
What is about East Coast men who impregnate West Coase women and then leave them? E.g., Tom Brady, Billy Crudup, and now this puke.
"I like that he is a man of principles..he does not want to be called Mr Berry..good for him"
That's a good point. At least he still wants to work and build his career. If it's K-FED, he would totally trick Halle into marriage and then never stay home, then he would get a divorce and spouse support.
I am sure low self esteem Halle probably offered to foot all the living expense in Los Angeles since he can't go to modeling gigs in LA.
She has said she will never get married again...so he has to have an income since he wont be getting alimony like Kevin Federline.
Boohoo, cry me a river. They got money to fly back and force to visit, they can keep 2 homes, one in LA and one in New York.
Millions of Americans work grueling long hours to pay the bills, can't see their kids often and they don't really have a choice. Are we supposed to feel sorry that Halle and Zoolander can't be together 24 by 7. Give me a break.
The busiest season of modeling is 2 months of fashion shows fo Fall/Winter and Spring/Summer in a year. That's when all the designers debute new clothes on runway for buyers. Besides those 2 months, zoolander will have a lot of free time and only work part time.
I agree with Gabriel.....Why put ones self in the constant, out-of-controlness that is the "LA" scene. New Yorker's know how to behave.
She needs to find another guy . . . even if it doesn't make him jealous. And nobody wants to stay under the thumb of anybody. This guy's got his own money & a restaurant to boot. He doesn't need her as much as she needs him.
She now needs to move on. She's got money & can raise the baby on her own. The more she tries to hang on, the more he'll bolt.
Let go and he just might stay . . .
He is soo hot!
Are all his Gay friends in N.Y. ?
If Halle is smart she would move to New York. Yes, in the city you don't have backyards (besides in todays society not many kids go out side because they are glued to a tv or computer) but instead of a yard you have Central Park with a great amusement play area, you have culture, musuems, theater, etc., and some of the best private/universities/arts & theater schools in the country. I would rather raise my child in New York than in selfish/all about me Hollywood/L.A. where her child will be influenced to think they are entitled to everything their parents worked for and don't have to work for anything in their lives. Not that this don't happen in New York but you don't hear about it as much as you do L.A. Halle's agent can contact her there and she can fly into L.A. when needed. She has a man that is wanting to keep his identity not adopt hers, she better get a clue.
Also, Halle would have a better chance in New York to have a normal life. New Yorkers don't usually bother celebs too much because they are going on about their lives and not so impressed when they see a celeb on the streets. Look at Kelly Ripa & Sarah Jessica Parker they can actually walk their children to the park and yeah a few people may say something to them but for the most part they lead a semi normal life.
It's because he never wanted to have kids with her. So he really does not think it's his. Dumb bit***
she sure can pick them !!!!
they won't last long - he loves himself not her.
"...you have culture, musuems, theater, etc., and some of the best private/universities/arts & theater schools in the country..."
Sounds gay already. Sorry, mate, I prefer my kids to go outdoor and be atheletic. Sports build characters. Yeah...museums are nice but sports do build self esteem. Never head museums can build you self esteem.
"Millions of Americans are middle class fucktards....If you do good in life you become rich...fucktards goto work!"
Yeah right. Doctors and fortune 500 CEOs are doing very good in life. That doesn't mean they have flexible schedules like some entertainters . It really depends the nature of your work.
When you become rich, you spend more, you need to maintain your lifestyle. That means you still go to work. Does that make them fucktards?
Living in Southern California isn't everything.
It's the ONLY thing.
Methinks Gabriel is just the sperm donor. He owns a restaurant in New York, of course he won't leave.
I want to see Halle happy and getting all that she desires in life! Of course I've never met her in person, but I care about her. We're a lot alike and have had similar experiences. I'm black, we're around the same age, we both modeled, we've both been married and divorced twice, and all kinds of other things. We even had foot injuries within the same week! Weird! I too had a very hot, white, and young French-speaking boyfriend and we now live apart because he had to finish pursuing his degree. Just as Gabriel is pursuing his career.
I am afraid for Halle, though. I know she swore off marriage and doesn't want to do it, but she should. I think Halle is giving too much of her goodness away to these guys. She's beautiful, wealthy, fun, energetic, sweet, caring, talented; all of those wonderfully rare things. But she's giving these guys the full meal rather than letting them taste it, ya know? She needs to draw them in and LOCK them in. Because she's a sweetie pie, she's too ready to shower someone with everything, just like how I was. Now she's in a situation where she's pregnant by a man who has not made her his wife. I hope he thinks she is worth that. She's not meant to be just somebody's girlfriend or baby's momma--she's the kind of queen you marry and raise a child with. No woman is supposed to be a single mother. Not Halle, not anyone. Hopefully, Gabriel already knows this, and in the back of his mind, he's thinking of doing the right thing and being her husband and the baby's legal father. I know she loves him--it's in her eyes the way she looks at him. I hope he loves her too and isn't playing around with her sensitive feelings. Halle girl, I understand you babe! Hang in there!!! Gabriel, there are no other Halle's in this world so you better go ahead and keep her all to yourself before you lose out and end up depressed.
I always felt Halle used him as a stud service. It seemed that way from the start, months ago. I still think Halle has mental problems..........years and years of mental problems.........
I don't care what anyone says - Halle's looks are leaving her - she looks more and more like a boyface as the years go by. She used to look soft, now she is starting to look harsh.
Yeah, forget your career and marry her then everyone can call you KFED. X17 advocates doing exactly what KFED did and that they think is so bad.
Crazy blog this is.
wow all that typing for halle? i didn't even read it all.
Well Halle's met her match and it's payback time. He's a mirror image of her or a reflection of her environment. She's getting back ever bad cause she's ever created. LMAO about that dating site--seriously doubt it. Halle's not going to move to NYC please. Hopefully, she won't be dumb enough to go there to chase him. He's already said no to her working at the restaurant. He's got what he wanted from her--noteriety, status, a taste of fame, his restaurant launched, a modeling pay raise, a piece of ass or her backdoor--depending on if he's really gay or not etc. Why would he move to LA. Looks like Halle's fairytale romance is crumbling right in front of her. Guess that's what you get from taking relationship advice from Auntie O (closet lesbo who dated a gay man for 15+ years)and others. Payback's a bitch ain't it. I hope she takes this opportunity to finally get her shit together and live in reality for a change.
hey, at least he's showing he wants to do his own work and make his own money and not mooch off her like so many other men have....i say good for him!
stil look sexy, but no luck with man.
Wow, I hope they work this stuff out before the kid is old enough to buy his own groceries.
She likes pretty losers. I would never get pregnant by a guy that wouldn't even care enough to marry me. That's pathetic.
Time out! All these crazy comments!
Halle,
You swore off marriage ever again. It should come as no surprise that your man may want to married the mother of his child and marry before abandoning his life and moving to Calif. It's not just about your feelings and insecurities anymore. What about his needs and the needs of your unborn child? Furthermore, I don't know of any woman who abandoned their career and moved across country with a man without at least having marriage plans in place. In fact the friends with the most successful unions were those who married before moving rather than risking any marriage plans falling apart due to the stress of the move, isolation from old friends, lack of commitment, etc.
You might also get some counseling to get over any issues you may have with marrying someone white. I’m just guessing that you have some given your dating/marriage history that we’ve all unfortunately been privy to witnessing. The sometimes ignorant black community will support you because they know you’ve tried a “black” or “mixed” man first. I hope that you’re not hesitating moving forward with this guy because of this concern. I am black and married to a white man. We have an adorable child and a great marriage. I know from experience of dating men from all colors of the rainbow when I was single that blacks will make you feel guilty if they sense some insecurities on your part. You don’t need to apologize to anyone. It’s your life! And besides you’re half white anyway!! Please, at least for the sake of your fans, move on with your life and set yourself up for happiness. And get some counseling!
You might keep a perspective on Gabriel. You wanted to have a child before your time ran out. Thankfully you’re doing that. Maybe it wasn’t yours or Gabriel’s original intention to be together long term. If it was meant, all parties will willingly and happily come together without any arm twisting – which can lead to resentments and ultimately break-ups later on.
Good luck and I really hope things work out for you!
I know from experience of dating men from all colors of the rainbow when I was single that blacks will make you feel guilty if they sense some insecurities on your part. You don’t need to apologize to anyone. It’s your life! And besides you’re half white anyway!! Please, at least for the sake of your fans, move on with your life and set yourself up for happiness. And get some counseling!
You might keep a perspective on Gabriel. You wanted to have a child before your time ran out. Thankfully you’re doing that. Maybe it wasn’t yours or Gabriel’s original intention to be together long term. If it was meant, all parties will willingly and happily come together without any arm twisting – which can lead to resentments and ultimately break-ups later on.
Good luck!
She has said before that she doesn't want to ever get married again. Why is it so wrong for him to pursue his career instead of following her wherever she wants to go? She doesn't have to live in LA to continue with her career.
....hmmmm would have been smart of them to discuss these sorts of things before she got pregnant. oh well, another fatherless hollywood baby. fantastic. (deep sarcasm)
she's crazy as a loon...i feel sorry for that soon to be crazy child of hers.
She is crazy and it will never work. Hey she knew that he lived in NY when she met him, that's where the money is. Let her old ass move, he probably has another woman anyway.
She said before that he didn't like LA, NY is his home why should he have to move? Because she has more money, man forget that old hag.... Gabriel do you...
It's not like she is making great movies, she never did, so what's the big deal. She is trying to run this man and he is right to stand his ground. She new this man lived in NY when her old ass met him. Good bye, we knew that it wouldn't work anyway. She just cannot keep a man, she is too looney and too hard to get along with.
I don't know about the aitencity of this piece of news, but Halle is a dumbass. I agree she should have discusssed this before doing that 50 pregnancy tests. Unlesss all this made up and she has tricked Gabriel by getting herself pregnant without consent of her partner. And why sould Gabriel give up his balls and be called Mr Halle Berry if he moves to L.A? Halle u have issues!
Gabriel has been in N.Y modelling for 10+ years ... he has a very successful career & booked loads of million dollar contracts ... he travels constantly with work & obviously the fashion industry in centered in London, N.Y, Paris & Milan ... by living in L.A it's that much further for him to travel - I don't blame him at all, it owuld be easier for her to live in N.Y - who the fuck would want to raise a kid in cultureless los angeles? & for those that say he's after her money - No Way! Gabriel will be a millionaire several times over - when you get to his level in modelling you're talking hundreds of thousands & millions for campaigns.
Total bullshit about how much money Gaybriel has--sorry folks. Prior to Halle he only made 25/27K-30+K per photo shoot. He now makes 37K-40+K thanks to being associated with Halle. His Calvin Klein multi-media campaign contract was only 1-2 Million. He rents his place in NYC and owns his place in Miami and possibly in Montreal. He doesn't have the money like Halle does. Whether he is after her money don't know. Give me proof of his loads of contracts. He was a rising model/future top model (the rest is media hype). Halle hooked up with him out of desperation to have a baby and he played her to get his restaurant promoted, fame, status, etc. Let's face it unless you followed the fashion scene you wouldn't have heard of him. Male models on the whole don't make that much money like female models do it is a fact. He wasn't even listed in the Forbes model issue.
I hate how she kisses his ass on tv. He knows that she is crazy and he wants to be as far away from this nut as possible. Besides she is almost what 50, well she's close to it. She is a has been who can't act.
Why should he give up his career and life for this old dried up hag, how come she doesn't move to New York if she wants to be together so bad? He should not bow down to this old used up has been. Maybe when she use to be beautiful, but now she is having so much plastic surgery just to keep up. Her face in that movie, all those wrinkles..
I am so sick of her she cannot keep a man,because she is a nut case and he knows it and is smart to keep his distance. She will start bashing him when it's over as well...
We'll see about her bashing him...she gave up her right to bitch when she first pursued him. She may try to get even (legally or financially). Seriously, doubt she'll move to NYC permanently or otherwise even to not lose face. She knows it's an empty victory. Another absentee dad who bites the dust if it's even his kid.
Halle needs to move on from the "She-male" she's dating and won't ever marry. He probably has a jump off in ny he does not want to leave, and he'll probably end up marrying someone else down the line and have a ton of other babies.
I still find thie ENTIRE RELATIONSHIP to be suspect. Gabriel said shortly before meeting Halle that he had a "girlfriend" and would want to get married one day. NOW he's not for marriage, etc. I agree that Halle was soooo desperate to have a baby and Gabriel was probably craving MORE spotlight - because TRUST! NO ONE KNEW THIS DUDE BEFORE HALLE - you can play up all the he's been sucessful in the modeling for 10 years all you want -- NO ONE KNEW HIM IN THE MAINSTREAM!!! AND IF HE HAD NOT BEEN WITH HALLE NO ONE WOULD HAVE KNOWN ABOUT HIS RESTAURANT! That's a fact!!!! He may not admit it! But he did NEED and probably wanted the spotlight. At the end of the day Halle no longer has the desperation Gabriel has more fame -- maybe now they actually see that they are not compatible -- to be honest they look dry together - like two mannequins (i.e., fake.) But at least Halle got a baby out of this. But personally I think they both should move on if this is true!
SOOOOOOOO agree with the previous poster that "Gabriel is Halle's match and probably Karma coming back to bite her in the a** for being soooo vindictive toward David and Eric. Although both guys were not perfect, they never tried to dog her in the media like she did them. Something tells me Gabriel will sing like a canary if Halle tries the same game with him. There's no loyalty with this type anyway (Halle probably did not learn that growing up though)!
Yep Karma's a bitch ain't it. It's payback time for Halle. She created all of this she needs to correct it. The same goes for her career, she's made a lot of bad causes in getting ahead not honestly, it's payback time there too.
She knows folks are tired of her doing the victim thing. If he sings he sings, it's her karma. She should move on and get her act together for the kid. Don't see her moving even if it's temporary. He couldn't careless about her or if she's in NYC kid or no kid.
If she would spend more time on her career and not on putting her personal life in the media she'd be a helluva actress.
Now it's rumored she's bought him a $150K loaded Benz. Sounds like the girl is desperate and is having second thoughts in being a single parent. We have 3-4 months of this nonsense?
Either she's playing faghag and/or she's desperate.
I think she just wanted to have a white baby.