Andre Niesing

Millionaire Matchmaker's Destin Pfaff and Rachel Federoff have tied the knot ... and they didn't even meet through Patti Stanger!

Not straying for their love of all things gothic, the co-stars and co-workers were married on September 24 in an intimate rocker-and-vintage-themed ceremony at New York's Millesime at The Carlton Hotel.

The black, white and red nuptials may have seemed dark, but it was a day of pure love for the couple, especially since their adorable two-year-old son Sin Halo Jude Pfaff stole the show as both Destin's best man and ring bearer. Keeping everything tight-knit, they had their pal Peter "Rocky" Gheno officiate the ceremony.

Every piece of the wedding fit the theme, from the newylwed's first dance to Reverend Horton Heat's "In Your Wildest Dreams," the Day of the Dead skeletons cake by Cake Alchemy and the white custom-made Atelier Amiee dress that was interlaced with bold black details and purchased at Lilly Bridal.

And don't worry -- Patti was there to witness the whole thing!

Congrats, Destin and Rachel!

Bravo's Millionaire Matchmaker Patti Stanger made waves with her Sunday night appearance on Andy Cohen's talk show, Watch What Happens Live.

In the Season 5 premiere, Stanger addressed callers flippantly, ordering one woman to read her book and watch her DVDs, and then made things especially awkward when a gay man Skyped the show with a question.

“You’re very handsome," Stanger said. "I thought you were straight. That’s a compliment.”

Patti's comments seemed to offend the audience, which got so quiet that Cohen remarked how silent the crowd was. "I'm uncomfortable," he said.

Cohen also had to stand up for himself to Stanger, who argued that gay men were less likely than straight people to be monogamous. "There’s no curbing the gay," she said. "I’ve tried to curb you people. I’ve decided to throw in the towel and just say, ‘Do what you want.'"