Does A Bad Bank Account Lead To A Bad Relationship?
Posted on Mon May 17, 2010 09:09 PM PDT
There have been reports of notable stars having financial worries. Nicolas Cage, Pamela Anderson, and Eve come to mind. Supposedly they all owe Uncle Sam big time. How might this impact them and their personal relationships?
Couples should change their mindset and recognize it’s not 1950 – the paradigm has shifted. Problems in relationships are increasingly prevalent in this bad economy and I’m seeing them more and more in my practice. Hollywood is no exception.
Couples who would ordinarily separate are now staying together because they either they can’t afford to move or they can't afford to hire a divorce attorney. Given this forced cohabitation they sometimes reconcile and actually work on improving their relationships but for others, it’s a recipe for disaster.
It’s particularly problematic for celebrities and performers to handle financial problems when their public image comes into play. Maintaining the illusion that both members of the couple are hard-working and successful becomes difficult and issues of jealousy arise as one continues to thrive and the other falls. When one person feels the other isn’t pulling his/her weight, the impact on the relationship is profound.
I hear frequently: “He’s not the man I thought he was” or “When I met her she was so ambitious.” Rarely is it lack of love that brings couples into therapy but rather unmet expectations. An unhealthy dynamic unfolds -- one person nags the other about finances rather than being supportive and encouraging, resulting in that person being seen as the pain-in-the butt mother or disciplinarian father which leads to serious trouble, especially in the bedroom.
Another factor, particularly with male Hollywood stars is the high, if not even unreasonable, standard they might impose on themselves. Failure to land gigs can lead to feelings of inadequacy. The resulting wounded ego and be detrimental to the relationship.
I definitely have financial worries and with the help of some of the public, Hollywood, and the "cops," a total breakdown of my psychological and physical state of my brain has occurred. I have seen many psychotherapists over the years, and none of them support the sadistic, brutalizing, and methods of misconduct by the public and the "cops" that serve and protect them. My financial problems have definitely led the public, Hollywood, and the "cops" to cause a mental, emotional, and basically total life breakdown of the present and the future for me. No American has the bravery to attack the problem, yet all we see is cowardice, brutality, sadism, misconduct, and "contempt of cop." Well, you get to watch the torturous, unethical, sick, and demented destruction. Robin William called it self-destruction. Well, Mr. Robin Williams, it is not self-destruction but people like you who are part of the movement to physically, psychologically, and basically every other way of destroying an individual. The headlights started in the Village of Oak Brook, IL in May of 2008, and even after Whoopi Goldberg and Craig Ferguson continue to this day two years later. That's 730 days of headlights on and a circus, or should we call it a menagerie.
From a psychotherapeutic level, where psychologoical stress and trauma is induced in an individual we can examine the issues of police misconduct, police brutality, and "contempt of cop." Now, whenever you leave for a destination and the fire department and/or police squad cars are parked in front for no reason than to introduce psychological trauma in a person already suffering from a mental disorder, the Wikipedia considers this to clearly be illegal. The go so far as to say that this psychological trauma is considered to be police misconduct which is a form of police brutality. These are not coincidences, but direct traumatic attacks toward me. The brutality can also be referred to as "contempt of cop," according to the Wikipedia.
Let me run through today about the transgressions by the Lombard, Illinois Fire Department. At 3pm I was headed to a location and the sirens were flailing and there were multiple fire department vehicles involved along with possible Lombard sqaud cars with their sirens blaring. At 5:30 pm, I traveled through Lombard to be passed by one of those Fire Department trucks which are not a full truck but look more like an ambulance size van. Sirens blaring, of course. This has been occurring in Chicago and its suburbs since May of 2008. Unfortunately, I made the mistake of not photographing and videotaping these transgressions. Otherwise, we would have serious charges with evidence of police brutality, criminal public harassment, and criminal organized stalking. Tomorrow's transgressions will be documented across the internet for the entire globe to see what transpires in Chicago, Illinois and its suburbs for two years. -The Brutalized One
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